i’m not a flower person.
no, i don’t refer here to any post 60s throwback mentality. i just mean that, all things being equal, flowers don’t quite move me the way they do some other people.
a friend suggested a field trip for my family about an hour’s drive from us. we could go to this place where they have lots and lots of tulips. and we could look at the tulips. and we could enjoy looking at the tulips.
and i was like, “um, is there anything else to do there except look at tulips?” and she was sort of incredulous that i would ask such a dumb question- like in the face of such clear and overwhelming beauty, why would you need to do anything? and she told me again how very very beautiful it is- that as far as the eye can see there are just these beautiful colorful tulips… and i was like, “yeah no. that doesn’t sound like something i would do. but thanks for suggesting it.”
*h learned early on that i am not a flower girl. when pressed, i would accept carnations, preferably in a cheesy dyed color, like blue. but i don’t really like flowery smells (exception: real lilacs when they are actually growing on real trees). i don’t really like flowery prints or fabrics or designs or patterns. you get the picture.
so imagine my surprise when up popped in my very own backyard, completely unbidden, a very quaint and completely unobjectionable flower. i’ve seen them in books, but never in real life, so i asked a friend what they are called. and apparently they are daffodils.
and apparently they grow wild, or close to it in seattle, because these guys are everywhere. which kind of piques my curiosity: why hasn’t someone decided to exterminate them like they do to other things that grow freely and naturally?
just asking.
and then, guess what? we gave someone a baby gift, and as a thank you, they gave us a quaint little bouquet of sunny yellow daffodils.
which i put on my sunny windowsill.
in a happy vase.
so now i am officially a cliché.
or a hallmark card.
and i don’t really care.
so it appears that i do actually like flowers; it just took me half a lifetime to find the right ones.
and they are daffodils.
how happy
on a completely unrelated and less happy note: petunia, our champion egg-layer and all around sweet gal, is gimping around today with some sort of foot or ankle injury. my friend’s chicken did this for about 24 hours and then dropped dead (from sorrow, perhaps?)- so could you send some healing chicken wishes her way? short of that, or in addition to that, could you send me some ideas about how to help her? i think if she dies, i may bury her near the daffodils in the backyard (unlike the other chux who’ve died in their service to our family, who i rather unceremoniously threw in the trash. i know- i may have some bad karma coming my way for that…).
at this point, i’m thinking that if she’s not better in the next 24-48 hours, i might ask my more “ethnic” neighbors if they know anyone who would be willing to dispatch her quickly and put her out of her misery. or i might just OD her on pain meds…
but, let’s try to stay positive- let me know what you know and send some love to petuntia…
Apr 12, 2012 @ 22:26:53
I actually just returned from a trip up to Skagit Valley to see the tulips. I was there too early, but the daffodils were magnificent! Well worth the drive! (You should go!) I flew to Portland (from Sacramento, CA) where I met our son and dil and then we drove all the way up there to mainly see the flowers! Really, you should go!
Apr 12, 2012 @ 22:38:33
I am the same way about flowers for the most part. I enjoy them outside if they are around but react badly if people give me cut flowers. Daffodils grow all over the place in MI too but I grew up in the country. They were my favorite flower until I smelled the ambrosia that is citrus blossom.
I hope you chicken feels better. What I see on the web says to take them to a vet if they don’t improve in 48 hours. They listed a few things that affect the legs and feet at this forum http://www.thepoultrysite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6334
Apr 12, 2012 @ 22:40:55
I’m praying for your chicken. My friend Serena has a farm if you want, you can email me tomorrow at hdietrich8@aol.com and I’ll see if she has gone through this with her chickens and if she has a solution.
Apr 12, 2012 @ 22:46:09
You never did the science experiments with daffodils and food coloring? It’s an educational must. Will send healing thoughts to Petunia. Also, I have been contemplating your book, yes, the one you are going to write. And no it won’t end up on the Dollar Tree or whatever dollar store there is. But my thought was that the garden fiasco is a great story, it’s not the whole story. Like you getting sick isn’t either or being the Super homeschooling Mom and Wife to H isn’t. They are all chapters of YOU. So get writing, I will read it. Just don’t put it in an ebook. It truly loses the joy of reading if you can’t fold down a page and smell the book glue or the crack of the spine.
Apr 12, 2012 @ 23:32:12
Don’t think of the tulips as individual flowers, think of them as fields of color. Fifty acres of tulips is more of a color swatch than a bunch of flowers. As was mentioned above, the tulips are preceeded (mostly in March) by fields of daffodils. And for other thngs to do besides the tulip fields, check http://www.tulipfestival.org . (Sorry, homesick Skagit Valley native here!)
P. S. I hope your chicken gets well.
Apr 13, 2012 @ 01:15:14
Fried chicken for dinner!
Apr 13, 2012 @ 02:52:28
Being the non girly girl that I am I thought, ugh flowers. Then I bought my grandmothers home…. low and behold not only do I love flowers I love working the soil and planting a ton of them. (just as much as my veggie garden) My grandmother was an avid gardener and always had the best flower beds and of course I felt the need to rise to the challenge of keeping them that way. Now every spring I trek all over and by 200-300 plants and load up the beds. I might not have the nicest house on our street (it always needs something done) but my flowers make everyone blow the horn and wave when they drive by. Daffys are one of my favorites even on a rainy day they bring a smile to my face.
I am glad that you found a flower that you enjoy… food for thought, every year the American Cancer Society sponsors Daffodil Days, where your donation gets you cut daffodils. Where else can you get a vase of smiles and give someone more birthdays????
May there always be sunshine on your garden…
Apr 13, 2012 @ 10:01:10
When I garden I plant marigolds by tomatoe plants as they attrack insecets that eat tomatoe worms. I used to garden ages ago and used companion gardening methods instead of pesticides
Apr 13, 2012 @ 10:02:13
“attract” wish I could blame it on auto correct
Apr 13, 2012 @ 19:16:44
Keep the daffodils flying!
Apr 14, 2012 @ 03:02:36
I get the love of daffodils as my paperwhites are out (technically narcissus) – unlike some delicate flowers they have a way of boldly regifting themselves year after year. PS the tulips are blooming now.
Infections and mites can cause leg problems that can spread to the rest of the ladies, so time to get some vet help if you se any sort of lifted scales, lesion etc. I you think it was from fighting and sore maybe use some vet wrap on her leg? Hope your dear gets better, if not call Alexia Allen at 425.286.5640. She will help with any question or assist with humane ends. No matter what an excellent resource.
Apr 15, 2012 @ 01:57:36
thanks for that lead- petunia seems to be improving slowly, but i just may give alexia a call if things don’t end up resolving. thanks again!
Apr 15, 2012 @ 01:57:50
doing my best
Apr 15, 2012 @ 01:58:04
ah, me too!
Apr 15, 2012 @ 01:58:54
thank you- back at ya! and that’s so nice about the cancer society- i never knew… coolest blog readers strike again!
Apr 15, 2012 @ 01:59:11
oh dear
Apr 15, 2012 @ 02:01:16
thanks for the good wishes about the chicken- and you actually do manage to make the flower thing sound a bit more promising than my friend
sorry to hear you’re homesick- maybe you could relocate to detroit and we could do a house swap once a year
Apr 15, 2012 @ 02:04:14
oh you are SO my soul sister! even though *h may or may not work in a technology-related field, i am a total page-turning book owning girl and don’t see ever being an ebook person (much to my family’s chagrin…). your comment rocks, by the way- maybe you could be like my unofficial biographer- or my fan club prseident or something
(wishing…wishing…)
Apr 15, 2012 @ 02:05:38
thank you so much- i’ll keep you posted on how petunia is holding up and let you know if i need a farm-level internevtion! (eek!)-seriously, though- thanks for that offer!
Apr 23, 2012 @ 21:15:25
lol! You said “Someone invited me to see tulips” and I immediately went “Oh, I used to live in Mt. Vernon and LaConner area.”
For those of you who want to tour? Please don’t stop in the road. My half hour commute to school should not take two hours so you can take pictures of the cows.